Workshops for men and women in body work and sexuality

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I first came across Andrew Barnes at the conscious sexuality conference in 2011. He was the first person to explain the internal structure of the clit to me and, boy, it was a weird mindfuck. I was comfortably snoozy on blankets in the belly of erin hall, satiated by delicious food and a morning of sex and relational talks, i wasn’t really expecting to have a world of wtf revealed in anatomical drawings and autopsy-type photo splices of vulvas and vaginas. but there you go. never a dull moment.

if you’re into expanding your awareness of your own body and sexuality beyond the textbook then go to his talks

other things that really struck me about andrew was his dislike of sexual dysfunction and disorders as medical events that needed to pilled, chopped, boxed and berated.

also, his obvious respect for the body and how it expresses its sexual energy.

his bio goes something like: ‘Andrew Barnes is an internationally acclaimed and qualified Tantric relationship, sexuality and orgasm coach, sexologist, speaker, master bodyworker and author of Heart of the Flower and Relationship Tantra’ and he flits around the globe giving talks and demos and workshops and consultations on these matters.

the purpose of this blog? he is here again, and honestly, if this is your thing – if you’re into expanding your awareness of your own body and sexuality beyond the textbook – then go to his talks. I’ve listed them here for you (there are others, but these are the most relevant to our chats here) and the contact details for more info will be at the bottom.

Sorry guys, this applies only to Cape Town, South Africa, right now. 

Expanding Women’s Sexuality
Saturday 28th February
Tantric Yoni massage, G-spot & A-spot ejaculation and energetic orgasm.
Phakalane, Hout Bay, 5-9 pm. Cost R500

Expanding Men’s Sexuality
Tuesday 3rd March
Understanding addiction to ejaculation, full body orgasms without ejaculation and lingam massage for healing.
Phakalane, Hout Bay, 6-10 pm. Cost R500

The Hidden Truth of Love & Relationships
Wednesday 4th March
Feeling your way into living & loving on purpose.
Erin Hall, 8 Erin Road, Rondebosch, 6-10 pm. Cost R400

This work is suitable for all sincere seekers of truth of any gender or orientation, single or partnered. Men, Women & couples. You do not need a partner to attend.

Find out about these and other workshops here [clickety click] or to book email Rhianne van der Linde or call her on 083 679 1297.

Visit his site for more: AwakeningWithin

Postsecret pic of the week :: would you choose to be a superhero or a supervillian?


I wonder what i would do if i were giv— oh who am i kidding, I HAVE GIVEN THIS ENORMOUS AMOUNTS OF THOUGHT AND KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD DO.

If I was given superpowers i would be a hero in a villainous way. ‘but dot, whatever does that mean?’ i hear you ask. it means i would use my superpowers to SMITE ALL THE PEOPLE I DO NOT LIKE but will also benefit everyone in the long run.

it would be an unPC list of anyone who is prepared to bear arms, harm and kill for religion, resources or money; psychotically violent people; drug cartels; the entire oil and arms monopolies; guerrilla factions and warlords; selfish despots; rapists, murderers and peodophiles; abusers of humans and animals; anyone who actively roadblocks advancement in sustainable tech and farming, education and medical research for the purposes of their own enrichment…

i could go on hey

chrissis, i’d be busy for a while.

look, i’m all for ‘we create the world around us and no one is born kak’, i’m just saying that if we could start on a clean slate and i have some superpower capacity, i’d get some work DONE.

i suspect this would make me a supervillian, but wtf guys, i think it would be better in the long run yeah?

happy monday!