iWank :: Masturbation Month

by Shilo McCabe

by Shilo McCabe

I masturbate however I like. Sometimes it’s quick and dirty, other times it’s particular, complicated, and seemingly fussy. I especially love when I can incorporate elaborate fantasies, costumes, and props!  I have a myriad of kinks and fetishes and when I masturbate I am not afraid to play with them. Really, that’s what masturbation is for me! Play! If I’m having fun and feeling good, then I’m always doing it right. – Miss Lola Sunshine

the month is almost done, but better late than never right?

apparently may has been the unofficial Masturbation Month since 1995. at least for a handful of San Francisco peeps. anyway, this year photographer Shilo McCabe decided to honour the tradition of masturbation by posting a pic a day of people masturbating accompanied by their thoughts on how/why/when of their relationship with self pleasure in The Sex Positive Photo Project.

the pics are ok, but the writing is dirty/hot/horny/funny/savage/beautiful/dripping/flash/sucking/fucking/open/violent/engaging/soft/squishy/squirming/wet/frantic/naughty/kinky/fetish/skin/cunt/raw/cock/pull/thrust/lick/cum/arms/legs/lips/tongue

by Shilo McCabe

by Shilo McCabe

Masturbation as alternative to war. Teledildonics as pathway to the divine. – Damani Starr

by Shilo McCabe

by Shilo McCabe

‘I masturbate as an act of self-care … Pain intensifies my orgasms, but isn’t required. I can come simply from feeling leather softly caress my wet, swollen cunt. I can come again from turning slowly to bite the inside of my own wrist. I can come a third and fourth time from slapping my pussy hard while I imagine my legs bound spread-eagle and my body being used as a fuckhole … I enjoy withholding penetration until I can stand it no longer. I imagine begging for it. “Daddy, pretty please? I need your cock inside of me and I’ve been such a good girl.” My cunt, so hungry, finally grabs onto the cock, pulling it deep inside, pushing it out again. I fuck myself as hard as I fuck my own girl. I keep coming. I haven’t yet found the end of my body’s ability…’ – Leland Carina

In a country where wanking, let alone sex, is still considered a filthy taboo, photo projects like these are well worth paying attention to. I loved how varied people’s masturbation methods are in this photo doc, do check it out … will write more on mine later … promise

All words and images are from Shilo McCabe’s The Sex Positive Photo Project >>  [clicketyclick]


  1. Hey Miss Dot. I am virgin and I would like to know how do I masturbate in a way that brings maximum pleasure with minimum pain?

    May 7, 2014 at 11:09 pm
  2. i aim to please. sometimes.

    May 27, 2011 at 4:45 pm
  3. no better way to spend a friday afternoon on the SPP Project… thanks

    May 27, 2011 at 12:33 pm

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