Monthly Archives: October 2011

memories, all alone with my deadlines

plums. i’m treating you like a cheap date and giving you only the little i can afford and rehashing the rest. because i’m a little too snowed under to be interesting on the interwebs, i’m giving you the very best of me … from last year (and maybe the year before, but i don’t want […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

A NSFW hello to Monday :: Bondage

just one for you naughty plums today. well your today, being monday … my tonight, being sunday. i’ve had a weekend of sleeping and drinking and eating and now i’m very tired so must go sleep again. here’s what struck me this weekend: if you’re sober and you meet someone who makes you smile more […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

postsecret pic of the week :: crazy sexy acts

who can say they’ve never done this? awesome. more postsecrets here [clickety click]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

Virtual sex sucks

Sexting, web-cam sex, chat sex … Dorothy Black prefers the REAL DEAL. Besides, it requires less multitasking. There are four little words in the area of sexual relations that make me cringe. Four tiny words  of such magnificent clichĂ© that I die just a little bit on the inside when I hear (or read) them. […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

little miss perfect

at the beginning of the year nechama brodie (@brodiegal) started a convo on twitter about children’s underwear and how it’s becoming increasingly sexualised. her article on this ‘sexification’, curves in all the wrong places, was in this weekend’s Sunday Times, so I thought i’d blog the pics we were talking about. here’s what i found […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

dream-time contracts

i HATE dreaming about exes. it gets them in your brain and weaves them into your emotional make-up for the week day. my latest top ex dream topics to detest are (in no particular order): I love you, Dot I’m gay and was never into you anyway, Dot. I was just never into you. I […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

A NSFW hello to Monday

i’m going to separate the sunday and monday posts i think. well, that’s the plan. there were just so, so many lovely pics today… i’m going to choose two i think … no, three… i would love to get my mittens on some better man pics that aren’t obviously posed for the walls of bronx, […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

postsecret pic of the week :: life

although many would argue i am still a complete fuck-up (and i am still feeling a strong sense of fuck you in that regard), i’m doing pretty ok considering. could’ve been a total sociopath really. and what fun would that have been? check out the other postsecrets – they’ve very awesome. there are some i […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

Friends with benefits

Hi there Im currently friends with benefits (this includes going out for dinner/movies/dancing, cuddling, her staying over multiple nights a week, etc), with an ex of mine. We have a long complicated history, and I want to somehow make it more. We have spoken about becoming more, but she said im not her type, and […]

Monthly Archives: October 2011

I’m HIV+ and had unprotected sex

Hi Dot I’ve gotten myself into a right mess. I’m HIV positive and I’m in a very new new relationship. Here’s the problem: we’ve already had unprotected sex. I don’t know how to tell him and I don’t know what his status is. I know this is really serious and I feel terrible. What do […]