Ask Dot :: Whoops! Turns out I might be lesbian!


Two separate women sent in these two somewhat similar questions in the same week. 

I need advice. I’ve been married for 14 years to a wonderful man. I really love him there’s never been any spark in our sex life. Last year without any warning, I fell in love with a woman. I was in a daze, since I’ve never been interested in women before but there is a HUGE spark and our sex life is AMAZING. My husband found out about the affair and said he doesn’t want to loose me but I must choose. I don’t want to hurt anybody anymore but I love them both so much, but what future do I have with my husband if I might be gay. How will I know whether I am gay or not? I have never felt like this about anybody before.

I’m a Sales Rep and I’ve started falling for this receptionist at one of our clients. I don’t know whether it would be appropriate to let her know that I find her insanely attractive. Up until her, I’ve always been attracted to men so this development has floored me! Okay, now my concern is the fact that I don’t know what her orientation is and obviously I don’t want to tell her how I feel and ruin our professional rapport. What do I do!?


I answered the first one in more detail on Gearz and finished up with the second one…

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