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Ask Dot :: Can I trust her after she cheated

I recently found out that my long-term girlfriend and my best friend were sleeping together. She came out with the story, we broke up and she started seeing him. But then she realised that she didn’t love him and we got back together. But there’s very little trust now. I love her with all my […]

Ask Dot :: I want to know about food and sex

I want to know about food and sex. My girlfriend and I have a great sex life and we experiment a lot. I want to tie her to the dining room table and tickle her senses with some cold and warm liquids, feathers and so on. I just want to know about vegetables/food and her […]

Ask Dot :: Help! I’m comparing my performance with her ex!

My girlfriend has only had sex with three men, including me, I have no reason to doubt her about that. Recently it came up in conversation that her first boyfriend was “very gifted” when it came to sex. She says that she is perfectly satisfied with my performance but the comment has left a bitter taste […]

Ask Dot :: My girlfriend’s sister is hitting on me

Dear Dot This is incredibly awkward. My girlfriend’s younger sister has been making serious moves on me since we all went on holiday together. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about a year and met the family before. Her sister would always give me these looks and I just ignored them. But when we went […]

Ask Dot :: I am a guy and i struggle to reach orgasm

I know a lot of men suffer from premature ejaculation but I have a different issue, I struggle to reach orgasm. I’ve done some reading and some forums say it’s from too much masturbation when a man is younger. During sex an orgasm will happen roughly once every 5 or 6 times. I can’t orgasm […]

Ask Dot :: He doesn’t want me to meet his friends and family

Dear Dot I’ve been seeing this guy for about six months. We met at a party and get along super well. We don’t live in each other’s pockets, but we hang out about twice a week, the sex is great and we talk and email a lot. The problem is that I’ve never really met […]

Ask Dot :: How do I get my girlfriend back? She totally friendzoned me

I’ve recently been “friendzoned” by my girlfriend, we dated for 10 months, our relationship was awesome, never argued and the sex was fantastic. Then about 2 months ago we had a small disagreement one night and she said we weren’t good as a couple and we made better friends. We haven’t spoken much since, last […]

Ask Dot :: My GF has picked up weight and it’s not working for me

I love my girlfriend but she’s started picking up some weight and it’s just not great for me. Like, not 2 kgs, more like 10. She’s becoming really miserable and has started eating crap. We’re not exactly the most active couple in the world, but I haven’t let it all go to rubbish and I […]

Postsecret pic of the week :: weight, self-esteem and sex

i found it super interesting that these two were together. i answered a question the other day from a dude who’s gf had picked up weight. you know, this thing with body image. #urgh. it’s pretty intense dislodging your identity from this totally ridiculous construct of perfection and shoulds. it was encapsulated in a cosmo make-up […]

Ask Dot :: I want to break up with my BF (and date his friend)

I want to break up with my boyfriend but I don’t know how. He’s really sweet but there’s just zero chemistry and we don’t really have very much in common. We’ve been dating for about eight months. I just don’t want to hurt him and I feel like a terrible person because there’s really no […]