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Ask Dot :: Hello. I can’t get over my ex.

Hello, There’s this guy I haven’t seen in years. I’ve been trying to call him to go over everything. They say that time’s supposed to heal, but I ain’t done much healing. I’m in California, dreaming about who we used to be when we were younger and free. I’ve forgotten how it felt before the world fell […]

Ask Dot :: I want to get pegged, do I ask a transgender girl to help out?

For everyone who would like to wag a finger at this question: unless i find someone’s ignorance purposefully offensive, i’m going to assume honest naivety. especially in matters that remain relatively new to mainstream thought. in the current social whirlwind that expects everyone to know everything, we’ve lost sight of the fact that people need to ask questions if […]

Ask Dot :: When it comes to one night stands…

when i do some Q&A talks with groups (all women, so far), i usually hand out some little cards and pens and ask everyone to write down a question they’re too shy to ask upfront. i’ve kept all of these as reminders of where the real info is needed. i’ll post these in the ask dot […]

Ask Dot :: Can I trust her after she cheated

I recently found out that my long-term girlfriend and my best friend were sleeping together. She came out with the story, we broke up and she started seeing him. But then she realised that she didn’t love him and we got back together. But there’s very little trust now. I love her with all my […]

Ask Dot :: I want to know about food and sex

I want to know about food and sex. My girlfriend and I have a great sex life and we experiment a lot. I want to tie her to the dining room table and tickle her senses with some cold and warm liquids, feathers and so on. I just want to know about vegetables/food and her […]

Ask Dot :: Help! I’m comparing my performance with her ex!

My girlfriend has only had sex with three men, including me, I have no reason to doubt her about that. Recently it came up in conversation that her first boyfriend was “very gifted” when it came to sex. She says that she is perfectly satisfied with my performance but the comment has left a bitter taste […]

Ask Dot :: My girlfriend’s sister is hitting on me

Dear Dot This is incredibly awkward. My girlfriend’s younger sister has been making serious moves on me since we all went on holiday together. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about a year and met the family before. Her sister would always give me these looks and I just ignored them. But when we went […]

Ask Dot :: I am a guy and i struggle to reach orgasm

I know a lot of men suffer from premature ejaculation but I have a different issue, I struggle to reach orgasm. I’ve done some reading and some forums say it’s from too much masturbation when a man is younger. During sex an orgasm will happen roughly once every 5 or 6 times. I can’t orgasm […]

Ask Dot :: He doesn’t want me to meet his friends and family

Dear Dot I’ve been seeing this guy for about six months. We met at a party and get along super well. We don’t live in each other’s pockets, but we hang out about twice a week, the sex is great and we talk and email a lot. The problem is that I’ve never really met […]

Ask Dot :: How do I get my girlfriend back? She totally friendzoned me

I’ve recently been “friendzoned” by my girlfriend, we dated for 10 months, our relationship was awesome, never argued and the sex was fantastic. Then about 2 months ago we had a small disagreement one night and she said we weren’t good as a couple and we made better friends. We haven’t spoken much since, last […]