Category Archive: ask dot

Ask Dot :: Quickies, eye rolls and an education on penetration for men

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Without expecting it to (I’m sure), this question raised many pertinent points about sexual relating and, most importantly for me, how we view penetration. Here […]

Ask Dot :: It’s on, it’s off…when do I cut ties?

Being strung along is no fun, but when do you cut ties? So I met this guy last year and I really liked […]

Ask Dot :: My fiancée really wants to try out polyamory. What now?

A couple finds that their personal relationship models conflict. My fiancée really wants to try polyamory. She’s incredibly unhappy, and feels that this […]

Ask Dot :: Is it selfish of me to expect my husband to include me in his plans?

A husband plans to leave his wife and unborn kid for a job in another town. Problem is, he hasn’t given her a say […]

Ask Dot :: Hello. I can’t get over my ex.

Hello, There’s this guy I haven’t seen in years. I’ve been trying to call him to go over everything. They say that time’s supposed […]

Ask Dot :: I want to get pegged, do I ask a transgender girl to help out?

For everyone who would like to wag a finger at this question: unless i find someone’s ignorance purposefully offensive, i’m going to assume honest naivety. especially […]

Ask Dot :: When it comes to one night stands…

when i do some Q&A talks with groups (all women, so far), i usually hand out some little cards and pens and ask […]