Category Archive: ask dot

Ask Dot :: Hello. I can’t get over my ex.


Hello, There’s this guy I haven’t seen in years. I’ve been trying to call him to go over everything. They say that time’s supposed to heal, but I ain’t done much healing. I’m in California, dreaming about […]

Ask Dot :: I want to get pegged, do I ask a transgender girl to help out?

For everyone who would like to wag a finger at this question: unless i find someone’s ignorance purposefully offensive, i’m going to assume honest naivety. especially in matters that remain relatively new to mainstream thought. in the current […]

Ask Dot :: When it comes to one night stands…

when i do some Q&A talks with groups (all women, so far), i usually hand out some little cards and pens and ask everyone to write down a question they’re too shy to ask upfront. […]

Ask Dot :: Can I trust her after she cheated

I recently found out that my long-term girlfriend and my best friend were sleeping together. She came out with the story, we broke up and she started seeing him. But then she realised that she […]

Ask Dot :: I want to know about food and sex

I want to know about food and sex. My girlfriend and I have a great sex life and we experiment a lot. I want to tie her to the dining room table and tickle her […]

Ask Dot :: Help! I’m comparing my performance with her ex!

My girlfriend has only had sex with three men, including me, I have no reason to doubt her about that. Recently it came up in conversation that her first boyfriend was “very gifted” when it came […]

Ask Dot :: My girlfriend’s sister is hitting on me

Dear Dot This is incredibly awkward. My girlfriend’s younger sister has been making serious moves on me since we all went on holiday together. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about a year and met […]