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Ask Dot :: I am 40+ and my son’s 20 year old friend is hitting on me

I am in my 40s and have been contacted by a former school friend of my son. He’s just gone 20 is incredibly attractive, rugby build, blond haired, blue-eyed. He has opened a dialogue I never dreamed I’d be having with anyone his age, and I am now incredibly tempted to do a Mrs Robinson […]

Ask Dot :: I Suffer From Premature Ejaculation

Dear Dot, I’m 32 and I suffer from premature ejaculation. I have 3 kids and adore my wife. Before we had kids we used to have an amazing sex life. Today, it is strained as I don’t satisfy her. We have tried everything, barring meds, but nothing has worked. Please help as all I want […]

Ask Dot :: How do I ask my girlfriend to peg me?

Hello Dot. I would like to raise the topic of pegging with my partner who i adore and love beyond … but i can’t seem to either find an opening, we have recently got much better at discussing our sexual needs and wants, but i fear asking her outright might seem a little sudden. Is there […]

Ask Dot :: I am dating two women at the same time

Hi Dot. So here’s my problem. I’m seeing two women at the moment. I like them both – I like hanging out with them and the sex is great. i’ve been clear with both that it’s not serious and I’m not boyfriend material. so i don’t feel like i’ve been dishonest. i just didn’t tell […]

Ask Dot :: Should I get back together with my ex?

My ex and recently hooked up again. We broke up about six months ago after dating for about a year. We went for ‘catch-up’ drinks which became dinner and then a nightcap and then a shag session at his place. It was really nice being with him again, but what now? The next morning was […]

Ask Dot :: I am in love with an escort

I’m falling in love with an escort. I’ve been to other escorts before and have walked away with no strings attached. I visited this one at the end of May and thought that it would be exactly the same as the rest, flog the cash, do the deed and go home with a smile on […]

Ask Dot :: She does not want sex after the baby

My fiance and I have been together for three years now. The sex was great for the first six months. Then she fell pregnant and the sex was even better. But since our baby was born just over a year ago, our sex life has gone. She doesn’t like it when I touch her and […]

Ask Dot :: He wants to keep us a secret…

I started dating this guy a few weeks back and we hit it off like crazy. We were hanging out all the time and went for a weekend away. He was saying all the most amazing things and treating me like a princess. Then we went for dinner with some of his friends and everything […]

Ask Dot :: Are group sex games ok? What about with her twin?

I would like to know more regarding group sex games, Good or BAD idea? We are an open minded couple and would love to have threesome. We get along very well with her twin sister and boyfriend. We have played truth or dare before, the four of us, but more soft core. Now we would want […]

Ask Dot :: Should I send nudes or not?

I have a penpal in the US who I exchanged naughty photos with. I have no regrets about that. But we met up last year and the chemistry was totally off. I blamed it on the fact that I was overweight. We stopped talking and I was semi-ok with that and moved on. I’ve since […]