Category Archive: columns

Do you need a 10-year break in your relationship?

Hi honey, we just need a teensy bit of space

If you’re in a relationship for the long haul, what do you do when it comes time to spend some time apart, asks […]

He’s not into flogging and other dating deal-breakers

Sometimes you have to draw the line in a relationship. Dorothy Black reveals her dating deal breakers. I have a few dating deal-breakers, […]

How to argue well (cos your relationship is not Fight Club)

Learn to turn your fights into learning moments and you’ll enjoy a healthier relationship, says Dorothy Black. I grew up in the 1980s, […]

How do you know if someone loves you?

What does love look like and how do you know if someone loves you? Dorothy Black believes you should create a love ‘must […]

Jealousy, the monster in your bedroom

Are you a jealous person? Do you have a jealous partner? Dorothy Black reckons it’s time to get that monster under control. I’m […]

What is a sex fast and should you try it?

Dorothy Black talks about the time she tried to lay off the sex for the good of her relationship… I tried a sex […]

First-time sex is never like the movies

First-time sex with a new partner may not be all romance and orgasms, but Dorothy Black says you shouldn’t judge your boo by […]