Category Archive: columns

First-time sex is never like the movies

first time

First-time sex with a new partner may not be all romance and orgasms, but Dorothy Black says you shouldn’t judge your boo by […]

Maintenance sex? Hate the term, love the concept

It might be a terrible term but Dorothy Black thinks it has the power to keep your love (and sexual va-va-voom) alive… It’s […]

How to tell your partner you cheated

Feel like it’s time to come clean about your affair? It might not seem simple, but it is. Dorothy Black helps you minimise […]

Body confidence :: Do you have sex with the lights on?

If you’ve never had a problem with your body and how other people see it, this column is not for you. For the […]

When do you start talking to your kids about sex?

Not sure why or how to talk to your kids about sex? Dorothy Black speaks up and to some moms… It’s a question […]

Writing about writing, Kinkly Top 2015 and Postsecret…

So i know that this is possibly the most ridiculous time of year to kick off the blogging again, but a girl’s gotta […]

Don’t share your passwords with your partner

Does signing up for a relationship mean handing over your passwords? Dorothy Black believes personal privacy and trust need to work together. I […]