Coupling yourself and your honey to social media

Wearing your heart on your virtual social media sleeve is on the rise. Dorothy recommends that less is more …  I wasn’t going to say anything. I was just going to let it all slide like a lubed-up Teletubby down a waterslide. But #relfies have just tipped me right over the OFFS ledge. Never heard […]

Ask Dot :: I am a guy and i struggle to reach orgasm

I know a lot of men suffer from premature ejaculation but I have a different issue, I struggle to reach orgasm. I’ve done some reading and some forums say it’s from too much masturbation when a man is younger. During sex an orgasm will happen roughly once every 5 or 6 times. I can’t orgasm […]

Ask Dot :: He doesn’t want me to meet his friends and family

Dear Dot I’ve been seeing this guy for about six months. We met at a party and get along super well. We don’t live in each other’s pockets, but we hang out about twice a week, the sex is great and we talk and email a lot. The problem is that I’ve never really met […]

Postsecret pic of the week :: romance, pee and a mystery

Romance this is just so goddamns heartwarming don’t you think? thoughtfulness is just such a freaking turn-on in a partner. i hope elise jumped his bones when they read this in bed together. Pee what. the. fuck. guy. whatthefuck. why in sweet jesus’ name would you do this. some other things to do instead: 1. […]

The dos and don’ts of sexting on social media [VIDEO]

Jen and I chat about the dos and don’ts of sexting your significant other, strangers and how to protect yourself… Recent On The Couch videocasts… ‘Space’ in a relationship isn’t an ‘F’ word.  Have The Talk! (It’s not going to kill you, promise) Masturbation is the work of angels. Do it often. 

Postsecret pic of the week :: Marrying for all the wrong reasons

this week’s drop of postsecrets had a few marriage ones that made me think of this amazing article katie face emailed this week: How we end up marrying the wrong people in the philosopher’s mail. I enjoyed this bit…   In the age of the marriage of reason, one might have considered the following criteria […]

Postsecret pic of the week :: You are remarkable (tantra notes part 1)

here’s a story… i’m not really sure why this appealed to me the most. and i’m conflicted by the urgent tone at the start of her letter (‘I really need your help’) and reconciling it with the fact that the ‘help’ simply referred to posting a follow-up postcard. anyway. i thought there would be a […]

Getting space in a relationship isn’t a bad thing [VIDEOCAST]

Those dreaded words, “I need space,” aren’t so bad! 

Ask Dot :: How do I get my girlfriend back? She totally friendzoned me

I’ve recently been “friendzoned” by my girlfriend, we dated for 10 months, our relationship was awesome, never argued and the sex was fantastic. Then about 2 months ago we had a small disagreement one night and she said we weren’t good as a couple and we made better friends. We haven’t spoken much since, last […]

I don’t want to play in puddles anymore

i should be writing on my book but instead i’ll blog about a little analogy that sprung to mind in a session with morla today. i was telling her about a recent proposition by a pretty frenchman and my reason for declining the dalliance. i was struggling to find the image to describe my intense boredom […]