Category Archive: relationships

He’s not into flogging and other dating deal-breakers

deal breaker

Sometimes you have to draw the line in a relationship. Dorothy Black reveals her dating deal breakers. I have a few dating deal-breakers, […]

Ask Dot :: It’s on, it’s off…when do I cut ties?

Being strung along is no fun, but when do you cut ties? So I met this guy last year and I really liked […]

How to argue well (cos your relationship is not Fight Club)

Learn to turn your fights into learning moments and you’ll enjoy a healthier relationship, says Dorothy Black. I grew up in the 1980s, […]

Ask Dot :: My fiancée really wants to try out polyamory. What now?

A couple finds that their personal relationship models conflict. My fiancée really wants to try polyamory. She’s incredibly unhappy, and feels that this […]

How do you know if someone loves you?

What does love look like and how do you know if someone loves you? Dorothy Black believes you should create a love ‘must […]

Ask Dot :: Is it selfish of me to expect my husband to include me in his plans?

A husband plans to leave his wife and unborn kid for a job in another town. Problem is, he hasn’t given her a say […]

Jealousy, the monster in your bedroom

Are you a jealous person? Do you have a jealous partner? Dorothy Black reckons it’s time to get that monster under control. I’m […]