Category Archive: relationships

Would you date you?

Someone once wrote that you should aim to be the person you want to be loved by. Dorothy Black asks: Are you that […]

Is your new, happy relationship giving you muffin top?

Don’t let New Love Poofiness get you down. It’s there to take your relationship to the next level. ‘What. Is. This.’ I stared […]

Don’t play possum in the bedroom

Do you use work or pretending to sleep to avoid sex with your partner? Dorothy Black says it’s time to have a courageous […]

Is cybersex really real sex and does it count as cheating?

Not sure if your online sexting with that hottie is cheating on your partner? Dorothy Black weighs in… You’re sitting in a room […]

The Shine Project SA

Pretty plums. I have been a busy, busy bee, which is why there has been so little going on here. Over the past […]

Is it time to end your relationship?

Not all break-ups are sad events, says Dorothy Black. Sometimes we need to see them as the opportunity for a new beginning. I […]

Ask Dot :: Can I flash her back because I think she’s flashing me

Hallo Dorothy I have only now accidently discovered your blog and like the way you “liberate” people’s thinking and preconceived ideas. Will definitely keep […]