Category Archive: sex

Feelings, sex and relationships – some perspective

Because this is a conversation that never gets old. So last week, during a talk I held for a very small and intimate […]

Be the bonobo. Should a fight be resolved with a shag rather than a screaming match?

A few years back I was asked to write an article about whether sex could ever be used to end an argument. At […]

Are you an ageist when it comes to sex?

If you judge other women’s sexual potency by how old they are, it’s time to stop limiting yourself and the women around you, […]

Sex (the thinky feely bits), Chapter 3 :: How to create the ‘sex life’ you want

An extract from The Dot Spot – Adventures in Love and Sex, Jacana, Feb 2016 There is so much noise in the media […]

Do you have a sex menu?

Dorothy Black believes we all need to create our own sex menu – and then share with those we want to shag. My […]

Vagina Varsity – Sexy time with Dorothy Black

A few weeks back I posted about the Vagina Varsity series put together by the Pap Culture group. Now, I hope you signed […]

Ask Dot :: How safe are blow jobs?

How safe are blow jobs? *** I take it you’re referring to STIs? Well, in any physical interaction where there’s an exchange of […]